What Is It About Dirty Talk That Drives Men Wild?
If you have ever been intimate with a man, you have probably been asked to talk dirty in bed.
If so, what did you do?
Did you ignore his request? Did you try your best to stutter out something that you thought he wanted to hear? Or, did you move his attention towards something else so that you didn’t have to say a thing?
Whatever you did, it is important to know that dirty talk is something nearly every man wants in the bedroom, and in the future, if you can tell a man what he wants to hear in bed, it will quickly escalate his attraction, passion, and desire for you!
Let’s find out why…
What Is It About Dirty Talk That Men Love?
Do you ever stop and wonder why men want you to talk dirty in the first place?
I’m willing to bet that if you knew the answers, you would always make a point of using dirty talk as a tool to ramp up his sexual attraction, keep him interested, and make him want you even more.
And with that, here are 5 reasons dirty talk drives men wild…
1. It Is Exciting To Hear Dirty Talk In The Bedroom
We have all heard that men enjoy a woman who can get wild in the bedroom, and dirty talk is a way to really amp up the excitement both before and after you’re naked and sweaty. 🙂
Talking dirty can help perpetuate a fantasy you are playing out. It can transform you into a sexy goddess that commands pleasure. And, it can show him your bad girl side that he doesn’t get to see very often.
In short, it is very stimulating and exciting. Your transformation during intimacy makes him feel like he’s with a unique woman who isn’t afraid to get down and dirty, and that is exciting for him.
2. It’s A Boost To His Ego
Every man wants to feel like he is amazing in bed. When a woman isn’t scared to talk dirty and lets a man know how great she feels, how amazing he is, and how much fun she is having, it makes a man feel like he is doing something right in the bedroom.
It boosts his bedroom ego and removes worry, frustration, or any other negative feeling. And that lets him (and you) experience maximum pleasure.
Being able to please a woman in the bedroom is a huge turn on for men. Why? Well, put simply, because it makes him feel like a MAN.
When a woman is obviously being pleasured, a man doesn’t have to question anything; instead, he can just enjoy the experience fully. And when he knows he’s pleasuring you, he’ll try that much harder to pleasure you even more.
3. You Become Irresistible In His Eyes
When a woman knows what she wants in bed, and isn’t afraid to tell her man what she wants, it is a huge turn on for a man. A confident woman in the bedroom is irresistible. It adds to the sexual tension, which adds to the overall pleasure of the experience.
4. It Shows You Are Enthusiastic
Dirty talk shows him that you are excited about being with him and not just doing something out of obligation, guilt, or duty. A woman who is enthusiastic in the bedroom is interested in him and everything he has to offer her, and that is a huge turn on for a man.
No man wants to be with a woman who just lays there like a dead log quietly thinking to herself, “Are we done yet?” just because she feels obligated as a wife or girlfriend to make sure he “gets some” every now and then. A man wants to know you are just as much into him as he is into you.
5. It Stimulates Pleasure Chemicals Inside Him
If he wasn’t excited enough already, your dirty talk helps to stimulate the release of chemicals in his body that increase his pleasure, satisfaction, and desire. It’s like having the key to turn him on and rev up his engine simply by saying a few words.
Not Comfortable With Dirty Talk?
Not every woman is born to talk dirty in the bedroom. In fact, the majority of women out there have been taught to be respectable and ladylike, and letting go with dirty talk is not the easiest thing to do.
But remember, practice makes perfect. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.
Here are 4 things you can do to make dirty talk easier so it doesn’t become an awkward, uncomfortable, or embarrassing experience.
1. Write It Don’t Say It
Writing is a lot easier than talking when it comes to something uncomfortable that you want to say. Fortunately, dirty talk through text messages excites a man just as much as dirty talk in person.
Letting him know how much you want him or how much you enjoyed last night will keep him turned on throughout the day, and the next time you get intimate he will remember that text and the feelings he felt when reading it.
2. Talk About What He’s Doing
Telling a guy what you want can be hard. Using words that you normally don’t use in bed can be really hard. But, letting a guy know that what he is doing is turning you on is much easier.
So, try telling him how good you feel, how good he feels, and how excited you are. This kind of dirty talk will keep him excited and will help you become more comfortable talking dirty in bed.
3. Role Play And Become Someone Else For A Night
Before you are intimate, talk yourself up to be the woman who lets her man know just how great she thinks he is. You can pretend to be someone else who is confident in her ability to use dirty talk in the bedroom. The beauty is that once you get started, it will become easier and easier to be yourself and tell him what he wants to hear.
4. Check Out The Language Of Desire By Felicity Keith
There is one awesome eBook out there that can help you talk dirty in a way that will rock your man’s world. It’s called the Language of Desire by Felicity Keith and there are some really good write-ups about it over at haveyouseenhim.com and copyfight.org.
Inside the Language of Desire, you will learn how to get over your shyness, and you will learn dirty phrases and techniques that are proven to hit your man hard and make you completely irresistible to him. It’s an excellent read if you are new to dirty talk or just want to hone your skills to arouse your man in new and unique ways that will drive him wild.