10 Effective Strategies For Attracting The Right Man

Get the man you really want!

Get the man you really want!

Understanding the way men think can take a bit of time and practice, because most men think differently than most women. Biology.  Evolution.  DNA.  Whatever you want to call it, men and women are different, and that’s just the way it is.

It’s actually a good thing, but that doesn’t make it any less confusing.  However, if you want to attract the right man, you will need to realize what actually goes on in a man’s mind and what men really want from women and relationships.

We all have times in which it seems like there is nothing we can do to attract the opposite sex, and it could be that you are just sending the wrong signals.

In order to figure out what you are doing wrong and learn how to attract men the right way, implementing the following 10 highly effective strategies will most definitely help you win the man of your dreams.

10 Effective Strategies For Attracting The Right Man

1. Playing hard to get

There is perhaps no better way to drive a man crazy than by playing hard to get…as long as it’s done the right way.  Since men love the thrill of the chase, by showing men a lack of interest initially, you are making them want to step up to the challenge and work for your attention.

2. Attract a man with mystery

Make an effort to seem unavailable and mysterious when you are around a man who piques your interest.  Instead of participating in boring small talk for hours on end, choose the things you say wisely, keep your conversations short, and always end your conversations right when they are going really well, and he will be stuck trying to figure you out.

Not only does this make him more attracted to you, but you will have much more to talk about the next time you meet.  Best of all, you constantly be on his mind.

3. Show depth and intelligence

There is nothing more attractive about a woman than an intelligent mind!  While your looks might grab his attention initially, they won’t be enough to keep him interested long-term.  You also need to be smart and passionate about life.  By showing your depth and knowledge, he will see below the surface and realize that you are a truly special person.

4. Be fun, a man’s version of fun

Men are obsessed with girls who participate in the same activities as them. What they look for in a woman is exactly what they look for in a best friend, which is probably why so many end up in the friend zone.  However, if you have fun with him, laugh at his jokes, and steer yourself away from being just a typical girl, you will keep him for life.

5. Always look your best

This step speaks for itself.  Men are instantly attracted to women with good hygiene and standards, and are instantly turned off by women who show a true lack of interest in their physical appearance.  You don’t want to date a slob, and neither does he.

Men are very visually oriented so use that to your advantage.

6. Dressing up

Chances are, if that outfit makes you feel attractive, then a guy will find you attractive as well.  Depending on the type of guy you want to attract, you may want to try a variety of different styles.

Since men are visually stimulated people, you will want to wear something that both defines your figure and brings out your best features.  Most importantly it should make YOU feel sexy.  If you feel sexy, then you will be confident.  And it’s the confidence, not the sexy, that will really attract his attention.

7. The art of body language

There are many effective ways to direct your body language at a man, in order to show him that you are interested. If you keep it at a minimum, then you will be able to get away with touching his hand during conversation and acting legitimately interested in him while he is talking. These simple acts of flirting can go a long a way, and will actually get him more interested and wanting to take the initiative.

8. Savor the moment

Of course there will be times when you feel absolutely nervous around him, so it’s important to always remember to have fun.

If the situation begins feeling awkward, try breaking the ice with an interesting topic, while remaining cool and indifferent. When you know how to have a good time, you will be in your element and men will become immediately attracted to you.

9. Say what is on your mind

Always remember to be yourself and express how you feel with no regrets. If you disagree with him on a certain topic, do not be afraid to let him know because he will end up appreciating your opinion a lot more.

Being yourself is always the most attractive characteristic you possess, and you will eventually find the perfect guy who loves you for everything that you are, and everything that you are not.

10. Be genuine

Once again, do not ever attempt to change your personality in order to attract more men. When you do this, you are only sabotaging yourself, and you will end up extremely unhappy in the long run.

You do not want to end up with someone who thinks you are a completely different person!  If you have to change who you are to get a guy to like you, then chances are, he was never the right man for you in the first place, and you will realize that sooner or later… preferably sooner!

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